Clinical Reference Systems: Pediatric Advisor 10.0

Normal Development: 4 Years Old

Physical Development

hops, runs, skips, climbs with increasing skill
tires easily
is accident prone
enjoys making loud noises, but is frightened by unexpected sounds
toilets independently
makes designs and draws recognizable objects
manipulates blunt scissors
dresses self (with exception of shoes)
small muscle control lags behind large muscle

Emotional Development

regresses to baby behavior periodically
shows new fears (becoming aware of more dangers)
has a penchant for silliness

Social Development

refers to parents as final authority
continues to test parental limits
uses "naughty" words to observe reaction
is ready for group activities
talks "with" another child, but does not listen to what other child says
is comfortable with other children, but shares grudgingly
tattles and name-calls
is more aware of sex role differences
imitates adult activities

Mental Development

is more likely to solve problems through words than aggressive action
has a vocabulary of about 1,500 to 2,000 words
speaks in 4 to 5 word sentences
fancies funny, exaggerated stories
can count to 5
identifies some shapes
begins to understand some concepts of time (yesterday, today, tomorrow)
asks endless "why" questions
usually can put toys and materials away without adult assistance
insists on finishing an activity or project
likes helping with simple tasks
begins to know difference between right and wrong
shows growing ability to distinguish real-life from make-believe
tells tall tales, but cannot always distinguish between honesty and dishonesty
believes the only viewpoint is his or her own
believes two unrelated events can have a cause-effect relationship

Each child is unique. It is therefore difficult to describe exactly what should be expected at each stage of a child's development. While certain attitudes, behaviors, and physical milestones tend to occur at certain ages, a wide spectrum of growth and behavior for each age is normal. These guidelines are offered as a way of showing a general progression through the developmental stages rather than as fixed requirements for normal development at specific ages. It is perfectly natural for a child to attain some milestones earlier and other milestones later than the general trend. Keep this in mind as you review these milestones.

If you have any concerns related to your child's own pattern of development, check with your pediatrician or family physician.


Written by Donna Warner Manczak, Ph.D., M.P.H.
Copyright 1999 Clinical Reference Systems